“IF YOU CAN DREAM IT, YOU CAN DO IT”.
Dreams – All of us have dreams. Almost all humans, all age groups have some sort of dreams.
They can be realistic, non-realistic, personal, professional, for you, for your family & friends, short term, long term & the list goes on.
So, what is you dream? And, what are you doing to make it come true?
Well, it is always said that:
“FOR DREAMS TO COME TRUE, THE FIRST THING YOU HAVE TO DO IS WAKE UP.”
Ofcourse, everyone try to put in the best effort to make the dream come true. The more passionate you are about your dream , the more dedication & effort you show to achieve it, to make it happen. But, everything is not in our control.
Sometimes, our destiny puts such circumstances in front of us that however hard we try, we are not able to make our dream come true. We have to let it go and compromise on something else.
Most effective examples of above case are seen in case of professional dreams. There are cases where kids are forced to choose / study the stream that their parents want them to. They are supposed to forbid their dream & choose the other path. It is not always family pressure, there are other circumstances also like not getting through the entrance exams, financial limitations etc. which forces the student to opt for some other course.
Now, the challenge is how well you compromise on the situation and fit yourself in alternate career.
How to cope up with the situation when you failed to chase your dream?
When you get your dream job, it’s your interest & passion that drives the work out of you and make you excel. You enjoy your work and put in your best.
But, when you need to settle down on some other career, work load seems to be a pressure to you. Even when you try, it becomes very difficult to understand and go to the core depth of subject. Your attitude of working is not accompanied with the sense of responsibility & accomplishment but with the attitude of working just for the sake of working. As a result, you are not able to give the best of your performance and in long run, it starts hindering your growth making you frustrated & dissatisfied.
It’s always best to chase your dreams & get what you desire. But, if not one shall also learn to get the best out of what they got. Always be positive in what you do & be strong enough to face the realities. Don’t keep on getting frustrated for what you have not got. Instead, try to make what you have got worthy by giving your dedication in that. And, who knows, if you try, you my probably start enjoying this new area & excel in that.
“ALWAYS RESPECT ALL THAT COMES TO YOU,
IT’S A BLESSING OF GOD,
YOU MAY NOT LIKE IT,
BUT YOU CAN TRY TO ENJOY IT…!!!!”
“IT DOES NOT DO TO DWELL ON DREAMS AND FORGET TO LIVE.”